Hello my dear friends ,
Right from our childhood days this is one of the famous saying we are taught - Prevention is Better than Cure.
For some reason this saying is the highly ignored too.
Hey I m not talking of any illness or disease that could be prevented.... but about the major issue today's generation face ..... Failed relationship or rather divorce.....
This term causes more devastation and pain than Cancer.
I know both men and women who have had to go thru this process damaging their normal state of lives.
What makes us reach this stage?
Can this be prevented?
Sometimes I feel yes.
I always believed trust and love lay the foundation of a healthy relationship .
But sooner I learnt they are only components.
Relationship is like a dish prepared during a meal.
There are many ingredients to it like trust, love , care , understanding..... But just like salt is the key ingredient to every dish the key ingredient for a healthy relationship is "Mutual Respect".
If we respect each other and respect each other's family, the bond between the two is bonded forever.
Many relations does not part ways because of each other but because of lack of respect for each other's family members or due to lack of respect received from the in laws.
How do I say this with so much confidence. ... As I had a close friend who had to take this strong decision when she realised that she was soon gona be married to a guy where due to circumstances both, the bride and the groom had lost the respect for each other's parents.
They still loved each other, cared and understood each other like Nobody else could do but the respect was lost...
Though they are far away today but happily acknowledge that their decision was right .....
So Respect each other and Respect each other's family all other emotions just fall tightly in place and the relationship then lives forever.
I am a witness to a few couples who have parted ways as they failed to develop respect for each other and the respective families.
Earn the Respect to Prevent the pain of separation
Right from our childhood days this is one of the famous saying we are taught - Prevention is Better than Cure.
For some reason this saying is the highly ignored too.
Hey I m not talking of any illness or disease that could be prevented.... but about the major issue today's generation face ..... Failed relationship or rather divorce.....
This term causes more devastation and pain than Cancer.
I know both men and women who have had to go thru this process damaging their normal state of lives.
What makes us reach this stage?
Can this be prevented?
Sometimes I feel yes.
I always believed trust and love lay the foundation of a healthy relationship .
But sooner I learnt they are only components.
Relationship is like a dish prepared during a meal.
There are many ingredients to it like trust, love , care , understanding..... But just like salt is the key ingredient to every dish the key ingredient for a healthy relationship is "Mutual Respect".
If we respect each other and respect each other's family, the bond between the two is bonded forever.
Many relations does not part ways because of each other but because of lack of respect for each other's family members or due to lack of respect received from the in laws.
How do I say this with so much confidence. ... As I had a close friend who had to take this strong decision when she realised that she was soon gona be married to a guy where due to circumstances both, the bride and the groom had lost the respect for each other's parents.
They still loved each other, cared and understood each other like Nobody else could do but the respect was lost...
Though they are far away today but happily acknowledge that their decision was right .....
So Respect each other and Respect each other's family all other emotions just fall tightly in place and the relationship then lives forever.
I am a witness to a few couples who have parted ways as they failed to develop respect for each other and the respective families.
Earn the Respect to Prevent the pain of separation
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