Independent or Dependant

A new thought to share with you all..

We live in an independent country, don't we?

We have our freedom, don't we?

These words are churning our brains to get an answer. 

I don't know how much of this , men would be able to relate but I m very sure every girl reading it might have experineced it At least once in their life time.

Every human is at first dependant for its survival or rather existence on its carrier (Mother ) , this dependency advances to a new zone called as Family , then Siblings , then Relatives, with time it grows to towards Friends.

Dependency does not end here but we still call ourselves independent. 

But this dependency now increases when we start to build a new bond called Marriage.

We are taught that once we are married we are mature, we can do our own things but we are still dependant. ..... we are seek permission for the smallest of our wish from our spouse , our in laws, spouse's relatives and friends and the most that all of hate to hear or know - dependency on our Kids.

We have the independence to eat our favourite dish but to get it we are dependant on our parents when we are kids.

We have the independence to buy our own clothes but we dependant on our spouse and the family to wear as per our choice.

We have the independence to prepare our favourite sweet but we are dependent on our Kids to allow us.

I can do things alone but to enjoy it I need someone along ......

Are we really independent or do we live a life of dependency ?

From existence to death we dependant but we are still independent.